CHG Confessions #4
The CHG appreciates the compliments in regards to the new sassy look. The CHG really likes her new sassy look. But the CHG also really liked the previous mermaid look. So comments like "oh, it looks so much better this way!" or "don't you like it better like this?" are not exactly complimentary as just plain rude.
The new sassy look is not "better." It is simply "different." No, she didn't get tired of the length, the upkeep, or anything else that goes with curly hair down to one's ass. She simply wanted something...oh yeah, different.
The next person who utters either of the above two phrases is getting the cold stare that comes moments before the knife plunges into flesh.
2 comments:
take compliments for what their intended, if you refuse them you lose them.
i do get what you're saying about the whole "i like the new one better" but look at it like this:
if your friend lost 10 lbs and you said "wow, you look great." would you want them to say back "so what, i was a fat cow before?"
I'm just sayin' that it's rude to assume that the catalyst for change is negative.
And honey, that's how women think: a compliment is always suspicious. Don't you know that already???
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